Be Alive Not Dead : Break-up???


 Relationships break-up for lots of reasons. Often, it's no-one's fault and nobody is to blame, instead things just didn't work out. It's ok my dear!! whether you are male or female that painful feeling has no gender. But sometimes when one side is in true love and another is not reciprocating in the same way or cheating, gives a kind of ache which is unbearable, and some people take lethal decision of their lives. Dude c'mon does that cheater really deserve such attention? A big "NO"

Instead of living a sad life why not to explore yourself! Let's find some way to get over it and move on.

Re-edify your Confidence

 Often seen that break-up develops low confidence, to deal with it we need to rebuild our self-confidence. Do whatever lifts your confidence. Try new haircut, go for spa or parlor, shopping etc.

Turn on your Crazy side!                                                                     Doing crazy stuffs at this time fills you with tremendous energy and makes you feel alive. We all have that craziness, but we feel shyness on doing that or sometimes we give reason of no time but now you are free to try such madness.                                                             


Yoga and Meditation

Yoga and meditation will surely help you in the process of healing. It will calm your mind and provide you peace of mind as well.


Be a Busy Bee!

If you have nothing to do any work, this trauma will give you a lot of  pain. You should become a busy bee for avoiding such pain. When you are busy in something, break up thoughts have no way to enter in your mind. You can grab the opportunity and focus on your career as well.


Do Share your Feelings and Don't Hesitate Considering a Therapist

Best friends are very helpful in such situation. They are the gift of God. You must share your feelings with your bestie, sharing things makes your heart light but remember you should not share it with everyone. If you cannot share it with friends then considering a therapist is a great choice because they will not judge you.


Try New Places with Old Friends

You can join old friends and go for exploring new places. Do cherish every moment of your journey and draw new memories of life.


Listening Crazy Music and Watch Comedy Movies

Music is also a great remedy for those who are suffering from break-ups. But soft music may return your love memory. For that you should try optimistic crazy songs and music. You can also watch comedy movies as laughter is also a good remedy.


Throw your EX from the HELL Door and Lock that Door Forever

Remove all the garbage of your ex from your mind and room as well. Block him/her from your social media sites too.


Focus on your Positive Qualities

Always remember you were loyal and he/she was a cheater. You deserve better and God has different plans for you, you have to just believe him. Be positive in life.


Time is a Great Healer

Be patient and trust the process. It is says that time is a great healer. And make your mind clear if you are not ready, don't pressure yourself for new relationship. 


I would suggest that feel your feelings. It's totally ok. Accept it and move on. Life is too short please do not waste it in regret. 


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